Moms are human too ♥

Moms are human too

mom rant time

The best thing about this nonsense rant, is that it applies to all family members just change mother to sister, son, aunt, uncle boyfriend, etc. Mom just has a bigger impact. You don’t talk about someone’s mom. As crazy as your mom is something just won’t let you deck her for being mean to you.

Noun: mom; plural noun: moms

  1. One’s mother.

“My mom gave us each a slice of pizza”

Origin late 19th century: abbreviation of momma.

 

Mom mom mom Mommy momma mother. Giver of life. Queen of kisses number one woman in your life. Moms work so hard for us for even before day one. They never receive the credit they deserve. We will never be able to pay them back for the sacrifices they have endured for us. We love them unconditionally. period. dot. com

 

Fact: your mother loves you

Fiction: mother knows/does best at all times

When you are born you give your mom 100% trust. Mother knows best mother does not lie mother loves me.

 

 As you get older you realize that mother lies, mother is just learning as she goes, mother is only human. But she still loves you (for most of us).

I believe that we give mothers a lotta bit too much in the forgiveness department. Just because that’s your mother does not excuse her from being crazy. Yeah we are lucky to be alive but maybe it would be better if she swallowed sometimes.

When you have a child you don’t immediately become perfect. Moms usually try really hard. But raising humans is hard. Moms make mistakes and it’s not a secret, but when it comes to owning up to those mistakes/ taking responsibility for them, or apologizing, They mostly are pardoned without resolution. We excuse them because we think they mean well, but what about when they don’t.

Children are expected to overlook their mother’s short comings just because she gave birth to them.

Why is it OK for moms to be crazy but not for anyone else?

Why is it ok for your mother to hurt you when it’s not ok for anyone else?

Why is it a problem to talk about?

Why do we need to just let it go?

Why are children the bad ones for reminding mothers that hey you didn’t apologize for being a turd?

Why are we ungrateful when we try to distance ourselves from oppressors?

Why is it a problem to have high expectations of the person you are supposed to love unconditionally?

We should not have to sweep her crazy under the rug because your father didn’t pull out.

Stop guilt tripping your kids into interacting with you, and act right so they want to visit.

Now just because your mother may make a mistake, that doesn’t automatically make her a bad mom. The bad mom part comes in when they keep on making those mistakes because they can get away with it, because they are unchallenged.

When someone you know says their mom is mean, don’t dismiss it due to mothers have their reasons. Some mothers are just straight up selfish. Some mothers just straight up shouldn’t have kids. You can’t speak about what you don’t know, if you don’t live that child’s life, you don’t know what their mom, dad, uncle, auntie, sister, teacher does to them. Just because they don’t beat you does not mean there are not scars.

Just because your mom loves you does not mean your neighbor’s mom loves them.

And I will get crap for saying this because mom is bae, but you don’t owe your mom squat if she treats you like the bare minimum. Parents are legally required to support their minor children. Supporting your kids includes providing food, clothing, shelter, and basic care and Making sure you go to school. Anything else is just extra.

So yeah she didn’t have to keep you. Yeah other children have it worse. But that doesn’t make her treating you any type of way ok.

Being family does not excuse you from being a brat.

And just because it doesn’t apply to you does not make this false.

i do realize that moms are amazing, when they want to be.

and even when i do have children i will not understand.

signed #ungrateful

 

 

 

 

 

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