If you don’t want me to haunt you when i die, follow these suggestions

Here I just have a list of simple requests i would like to be followed if i die, or else i will be a petty ghost and haunt you. You will stub your toe and accidentally bite your cheek for the rest of your life 3 times a day.

  1. I want all shooters at my funeral. Please and Thank you.giphy8
  2. I leave all my estate(debt and sailor moon merch and size 6 shoes) to 45. I know I know, My benevolence knows no bounds. giphy9
  3. My husband shall wait 2 years before finding , talking, cuffing, cup caking, associating or marrying a new wife or he fake. period dot com. His ass is grass. He will stub only his pinkie toe. 6 times a day for life. 
  4. No open casket Dont look at me while im dead ew please look at my Instagram, that’s where all of my public approved pictures are.
  5. Don’t waste money on a funeral, it’s really not that serious, no one even wants to go to it, give that money to my sisters.
  6. While we are at it cremate me and scatter my ashes in some pretty ocean water like in the Bahamas, so i can be a mermaid.
  7. If y’all really feel the need to memorialize my awesome bury my remains as a tree, not apple cuz I was never a sour apple bitter bih, maybe lemon, and use them for the lemon pepper wings and freeze cups days
  8. i will haunt anyone who wears a shirt with my face or likeness on it after i die, y’all will never pick a cute picture for it.                                 
  9. i don’t trust any one but my husband to make a go-fund-me account in my name so don’t do it, yall shady for real
  10. Dont show up at my Facebook fake like we talk, if you don’t read my blog don’t even pretend we cool in my death.                                                                                          
  11. If i was killed or have beef with any one don’t say i would wish peace or forgiveness on shit, blow that mother effer up. i was never that nice.  If the person is an Irish  Muslim Police Officer named Dave, don’t hate all Irishmen, or Muslims or Police officers, just Dave. Even i am not that petty.Image result for niggas at my funeral gif

Moms are human too ♥

Moms are human too

mom rant time

The best thing about this nonsense rant, is that it applies to all family members just change mother to sister, son, aunt, uncle boyfriend, etc. Mom just has a bigger impact. You don’t talk about someone’s mom. As crazy as your mom is something just won’t let you deck her for being mean to you.

Noun: mom; plural noun: moms

  1. One’s mother.

“My mom gave us each a slice of pizza”

Origin late 19th century: abbreviation of momma.


Mom mom mom Mommy momma mother. Giver of life. Queen of kisses number one woman in your life. Moms work so hard for us for even before day one. They never receive the credit they deserve. We will never be able to pay them back for the sacrifices they have endured for us. We love them unconditionally. period. dot. com


Fact: your mother loves you

Fiction: mother knows/does best at all times

When you are born you give your mom 100% trust. Mother knows best mother does not lie mother loves me.


 As you get older you realize that mother lies, mother is just learning as she goes, mother is only human. But she still loves you (for most of us).

I believe that we give mothers a lotta bit too much in the forgiveness department. Just because that’s your mother does not excuse her from being crazy. Yeah we are lucky to be alive but maybe it would be better if she swallowed sometimes.

When you have a child you don’t immediately become perfect. Moms usually try really hard. But raising humans is hard. Moms make mistakes and it’s not a secret, but when it comes to owning up to those mistakes/ taking responsibility for them, or apologizing, They mostly are pardoned without resolution. We excuse them because we think they mean well, but what about when they don’t.

Children are expected to overlook their mother’s short comings just because she gave birth to them.

Why is it OK for moms to be crazy but not for anyone else?

Why is it ok for your mother to hurt you when it’s not ok for anyone else?

Why is it a problem to talk about?

Why do we need to just let it go?

Why are children the bad ones for reminding mothers that hey you didn’t apologize for being a turd?

Why are we ungrateful when we try to distance ourselves from oppressors?

Why is it a problem to have high expectations of the person you are supposed to love unconditionally?

We should not have to sweep her crazy under the rug because your father didn’t pull out.

Stop guilt tripping your kids into interacting with you, and act right so they want to visit.

Now just because your mother may make a mistake, that doesn’t automatically make her a bad mom. The bad mom part comes in when they keep on making those mistakes because they can get away with it, because they are unchallenged.

When someone you know says their mom is mean, don’t dismiss it due to mothers have their reasons. Some mothers are just straight up selfish. Some mothers just straight up shouldn’t have kids. You can’t speak about what you don’t know, if you don’t live that child’s life, you don’t know what their mom, dad, uncle, auntie, sister, teacher does to them. Just because they don’t beat you does not mean there are not scars.

Just because your mom loves you does not mean your neighbor’s mom loves them.

And I will get crap for saying this because mom is bae, but you don’t owe your mom squat if she treats you like the bare minimum. Parents are legally required to support their minor children. Supporting your kids includes providing food, clothing, shelter, and basic care and Making sure you go to school. Anything else is just extra.

So yeah she didn’t have to keep you. Yeah other children have it worse. But that doesn’t make her treating you any type of way ok.

Being family does not excuse you from being a brat.

And just because it doesn’t apply to you does not make this false.

i do realize that moms are amazing, when they want to be.

and even when i do have children i will not understand.

signed #ungrateful






10 types of people at work~ you are welcome

  1. Ms New New
    • Not sick of it all yet
    • Probably a newlywed
    • Everyone gives them unwanted advice
    • Normally given tasks no one else wants to do
    • Does things out of the goodness of their heart even if they aren’t paid to do it yet
    • not necessarily new but has not been corrupted by society just yet
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Miss Excuse

    • Her aunt just died
    • Her child is sick
    • Her cat needs to go to the vet
    • Has emergency surgery
    • Her car had a flat
    • Probably owes you money
    • Is always in avoidable situations
    • miss “Im having problems with my cable bill I need to call them during business hours and you know they have you on hold all day, can u cover for me” face ass
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Queen Mean

  • Never has anything nice to say
  • Feels like someone owes her something for doing her job
  • no matterwhat she says, it comes off as rude, out of place, and unnecessary
  • Queen complainer
  • Is not bad at her job so we can’t fire her
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Mister Buzzkill

  • When you are gabbing with your coworkers they  reminds you of how much work y’all need to get done.
  • never included in the office lotto pool
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Father Time

  • Been in the company 100 years
  • Rules don’t apply to them
  • allergic to all change
  • resistant-to-change

Miss wanna be boss

  • Sends emails about every little mistake
  • Double checks others work, when it’s not her job
  • Gives unasked for advice
  • Doesn’t know what the company would do without her
  • Complains about how much work she has to do, but volunteers for extra work
  • reliable but annoying
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Miss Wish they would

  • Wishes they would fire her so she can collect unemployment
  • Does only her job nothing extra
  • Always has receipts
  • Will never catch her slipping
  • Rules also do not apply to hergiphy7

Mr Awful

  • Always makes mistake
  • Deny Deny Deny making mistakes
  • Constantly blames others for their own incompetence
  • No one knows why or how they are still there
  • Miss Wish always checks him
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Mr Who?

  • You don’t know who they are or what they do in the company but they are always in the background
  • Probably named john smithor jane doe
  • never invited but always there
  • forgettable
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IT department

  • never available
  • tells you to google it
  • never fully fixes your problem, probably so they keep having a job
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5 things I do when I cannot go to sleep

Just in case some of you were struggling


  1. I do jumping jacks, run, skip, jump, dance. Whatever I can do to tire myself out.
  2. Milk n cookies, totally cliché but I like Cinna buns and french-fries before bed too. Totally not recommended though. One day when I grow up I will look like an ice-cream cone.
  3. Count sheep or study. Studying always puts me to sleep and the worst case scenario is you will end up learning something
  4. Watch the news or your s/o play Destiny 2
  5. I listen to instrumental, but be careful with that because some instrumentals are to poppin’ to sleep too.

10 not so cute things my Husband says to Me

  1. Idk why you dont look cute in pictures baby you look cute in person.
  2. Stop being such a brute you cant just force it in there, just give it here…!
  3. Keep your lil grubby fingers off my TV!
  4. Just give it to me that’s not where it goes!
  5. Omg i married a Grimlin!
  6. Thats my wifes dog, even though it looks like a rat
  7. No stop stop you are cleaning it wrong, ill do it.
  8. Be nice please
  9. Dont touch anything, ever
  10. Why are your feet print on the window?! 

~ Sam 

None of this bothers me, i am lucky he cleans up after me and doesnt let me take ugly pictures, i feel bad for some of yall.

Concerts I Will Be Attending

Jhene Aiko TRIP(the tour)~ She is beautiful and has a beautiful album. I personally want to have her babies. So I snatched up two VIP tickets for her concert. It will be lit AF. Plus she won the for the dick challenge with that new tattoo…

24k Still with 24u ~ I’m super excited that since I have moved to Atlanta there have been multiple opportunities to see Korean Artists here. I am obsessed with them and their amazing voices.

Cory is bae(sorry Sam) so I hope I see him up close.

In my KPOP group chat they asked me what I would say if I met any of them. I’m always at a loss cuz what DO you say to a celebrity other than I love you. They are actually strangers.

I will tell them to tell other artists to stop in Atlanta for their tours as well cuz we are amazing, but the truth is I’m selfish so I will probably tell them to come home with me, because my fried chicken is amazing.(may or may not be true)


Illionaire Ambition tour~ the hip hop/ rap scene in Korea is FIRE. I Only know of two of the artists coming to Atlanta but I’m about to find out about the rest of their talent really really quick.

Now who i wanna see in concert is Cardi B, i just found out we practically the same age so she need to preform here in Atlanta so i can explain to her why we need to be besties. Im cool , she cool. She the hottest in the streets. Im cold all the time. She wild , im crazy. She busy being famous im busy at work. I wont even be clingy we can just text and hang out when she bored. I think we can work something out.💕😩

Second Cup of Tea ~ Work Rant

So I may be the youngest person at my company, and every day I feel like I’m being used to the max.

I’m always giving a Microsoft Word and Excel Tutorials. Which explains why every one is so slow with their reports lol.

They always talk to me about their children like I am more in touch with whatever is making them crazy. They ask me about Music artists, which I cannot help with cuz I’m not Basic like their children. I am ALWAYS fixing the copy machine. I’m trying to figure out how they functioned without me. Our IT department is Slow AF so I know they didn’t help out before i got here.
I also get plenty of:

When will you have children?

How many children do you have?

Your husband is white right?

What are you mixed with?

Are you here to visit your parent? Whose child are you?

You’re young so of course you move more quickly.

One day you will understand when you have children.

But real talk i love my Job, all my work old people are Really sweet and adorbz.

Im sure everyone can relate.

First Cup of Tea ~Small Confession😏

I used to really hate my parents back in middle school. I was super angsty, nothing like the bundle of sunshine i am now. I don’t know what I was going through, but I just knew my parents were crazy. I swear i used to get in trouble for breathing.
I felt like i needed to get back at them, but i couldnt so anything too obvious. Cuz real talk I could have been waaaaaaay worse, so they were asking for me to show out 😂. so every time I saw the tv remote out I would slide it under the couch. Every time I saw their keys out I would put them in the fridge or freezer. I would push belts under the bed(so no easy whoopins). I would hide just one shoe. Real bad huh.😏

Do i regret this… no, cuz at the time it happened it was my revenge against parents who I knew were crazy.
Going forward if I have kids I will probably be in major trouble.


Second Pump of Sugar

Tia: Just let me know if we are having kids before our 10 year anniversary or na…
Sam: I haven’t decided yet

Tia: well if you wait too long it will be hard for me to bounce back from the baby body

Sam: you know what that sounds like…

Tia/Sam: what/A personal problem…

Tia :😠

Sam: JK
Lately I’ve been having wild thoughts lol. If my sister or husband tell me that they are having issues with a person. I immediately go into revenge mode. i really need to calm that mess down.

I can’t help but wonder, if I’m willing to go to jail over my sister( (who snitched on me heavy growing up) (who also NEVER says sorry because she normally is not)), what would I do for my own kids? rape? pillage? vote for trump for a 2nd or 3rd term? Its unimaginable. I would like to think I would be calm and collected but, who would be over your own babies.
But back to the regularly scheduled Sam and Tia Chronicles


Tia: Hunny will you put money on my books if I go to prison

Sam: no


Sam: well if your mom wont I will I guess